A Sermon for the Eleventh Sunday after Pentecost (Proper 14, Year A)
August 9, 2026
Text: Matthew 14:22-33
Now, O Lord, take my lips, and speak through them. Take our minds, and think through them. Take our hearts, and set them on fire. In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit. Amen.
One of the great blessings of being a parish priest is taking Holy Communion to those who are sick or homebound. It’s an opportunity to meet people where they are and to bring the Church to them when they can’t be here in person.
For the past few years, I’ve had the opportunity to visit someone in our community—not a member of our parish—but a retired Episcopal priest named Francis.
Because of his health, he’s no longer able to come to church. So every so often, one of his family members calls and asks if I’ll come pray with him and bring Communion, which I’m always happy to do.
A few weeks ago, I had the opportunity to visit Francis again.
I arrived at the house expecting an ordinary visit.
When I walked inside the house, I greeted Francis like usual and asked how he was doing.
Then I looked across the room and greeted the woman who lovingly cares for him, and I asked how she was doing.
She paused for a moment.
She lowered her head just a little.
And I could tell immediately that something wasn’t right.
Then she shared with me that, just a few months ago, her family had experienced a terrible tragedy.
With tears in her eyes, she told me that her youngest son had died unexpectedly, leaving behind a wife and two young children.
I don’t want to go into the details, because they’re not important.
What matters is that a mother was grieving the loss of her son.
As I sat and listened, my heart broke for her because I could tell she was really struggling.
And one thought kept running through my mind:
“What do I say?”
What do you say to a mother who’s lost her child?
What words could possibly make a difference?
As tempting as it would have been to move the conversation along and return my attention to Francis, I knew in that moment that she needed someone to listen.
So that’s what I did.
I listened.
I offered a few simple words of encouragement.
I gave her a big hug.
And I reminded her that our God is loving and merciful—a God who promises never to leave us or abandon us in our pain—a God who walks with us even when it feels like all hope is lost.
The truth is, there was nothing I could do or say that would make her pain go away.
There was nothing I could do to fix what had happened.
The only thing I could do was stay with her in that moment.
To listen.
To be present.
To give her the space to share what was on her heart.
I have no idea whether anything I said made a difference.
But I hope that, in some small way, my presence reminded her that she wasn’t alone.
After we all prayed together and shared Holy Communion, I drove home.
And as I drove, I found myself giving thanks to God for this calling and for being able to serve as an instrument of God’s healing.
I also found myself reflecting on something I need to be reminded of from time to time.
Maybe you do too.
We never really know what people are carrying.
We can go through an ordinary day assuming everything is perfectly fine while the person standing right beside us is living through the worst season of their life.
We never know how God might place someone in our path who is hurting.
And because we never know, kindness matters.
Compassion matters.
Showing up and being present matters.
Because God may be preparing to use us in ways we never expected.
God may be calling us to bring hope to someone who’s struggling to find it.
God may be using us to reach out a hand to someone who needs our help.
As I was getting ready for today’s sermon and reading through our Gospel lesson for this morning, my mind kept going back to that visit with Francis and his caregiver.
And I began to realize something. These two stories have something in common.
They’re both about people who are sinking.
In our lesson today from Matthew, after feeding the five thousand, Jesus sends the disciples ahead by boat while he goes up the mountain to pray.
During the night the wind picks up, the waves begin crashing against the boat, and the disciples become terrified.
Then, in the darkness, they see Jesus walking toward them on the water, but at first, they think it’s a ghost.
Peter says, “Lord, if it is you, command me to come to you.”
Jesus answers with one word.
“Come.”
Peter climbs out of the boat, and for a few moments, he actually walks toward Jesus.
But then he notices the wind.
He sees the waves crashing.
Fear overwhelms him, and he begins to sink.
As the water closes around him, Peter cries out, “Lord, save me.”
Then Matthew gives us one of the most beautiful sentences in the entire Gospel.
“Immediately Jesus reached out his hand and caught him.”
That line has stayed with me all week.
Jesus reaches out his hand.
He doesn’t stand back and wait for Peter to figure out how to save himself.
He doesn’t lecture Peter while he’s drowning.
He reaches for him.
And once he has him safely in his grasp, he says to Peter, “You of little faith, why did you doubt?”
For the longest time, I heard those words as criticism.
But, now I hear them differently.
I hear them as words of compassion.
Not the voice of an angry or disappointed teacher.
But the voice of a Savior who was there to save his friend.
It’s almost as if Jesus is saying, “Peter…I’m right here with you. You don’t have to be afraid.”
I think that’s important because it tells us something about the heart of God.
Jesus’ first instinct is compassion—not criticism.
His first instinct is to move toward the one who’s sinking.
His first instinct is to reach out his hand in love.
And if that’s who Jesus is, then perhaps that’s what we’re called to do as well.
There’s another story in the Bible that comes later—in the Book of Acts—about Peter and John, who encounter a man who’s been unable to walk since birth.
Every day he’s carried to the Beautiful Gate of the Temple to beg for money.
When Peter sees the man, he says, “I have no silver or gold, but what I have I give you. In the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, stand up and walk.”
Then the author of Acts tells us that Peter took him by the right hand and raised him up.
Peter reaches out his hand and heals him.
In my holy imagination, I wonder if Peter remembered the hand of Jesus in that moment.
The hand that reached out through the wind and the waves.
The hand that saved him from drowning in the sea.
Scripture doesn’t tell us what Peter was thinking, but it doesn’t really have to.
Peter experienced the compassion of Jesus, and he learned to show that same compassion to others.
That’s called discipleship.
Not simply believing in Jesus.
But becoming more like Jesus.
Receiving his compassion.
Then sharing that same compassion with someone else.
Friends, the truth is, we can’t solve every problem.
We can’t heal every broken heart, as much as we would like to.
We can’t carry every burden.
And we can’t save the world.
That work belongs to God.
But we can notice when someone’s sinking.
We can care when someone’s hurting.
We can visit someone who’s lonely or afraid.
We can pray and offer words of encouragement.
We can sit quietly beside someone who’s grieving.
We can listen without trying to explain away their pain.
We can be present.
And we can reach out a hand.
This week, someone around you may be struggling with a burden you’ll never see.
Or maybe you will.
Maybe you’ll have the opportunity to be the hands and feet of Jesus and reach out a hand to someone who’s hurting.
You may not have the perfect words.
You may not have any answers.
But Jesus isn’t asking you to have all the answers.
He’s asking you to be present.
To be kind.
To be compassionate.
To reach out your hand in love.
That’s what Jesus did for Peter.
That’s what Peter learned to do for others.
And that’s how Christ continues to reach people today—through our words and actions.
One act of compassion.
One quiet presence.
One outstretched hand at a time.
Amen.
