The Measure of a Life

A Sermon for the Sixteenth Sunday after Pentecost (Proper 21C)
September 28, 2025

Text: Luke 16:19-31

Now, O Lord, take my lips, and speak through them. Take our minds, and think through them. Take our hearts, and set them on fire. In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit. Amen.

Last Sunday, after worship, we walked over to the Parish Hall and found it completely transformed for our Ministry Fair.

The whole room was filled with color and imagination—balloons floating overhead, bright tablecloths draped across the tables, and displays so carefully prepared that you could see the love and creativity poured into every ministry.

There were twenty-two displays in all—everything from our Rice and Beans Ministry to the Altar Guild to the Daughters of the King and even one for our upcoming Fall Festival in November.

It was more than just a room full of sign-up sheets. It was a celebration of giving—of people offering their time, talents, and resources for the sake of God’s Kingdom.

The whole room buzzed with conversation and laughter as people moved from table to table, asking questions and learning about new opportunities to serve.

And I have to tell you, I felt an incredible sense of pride and joy in that moment—pride in seeing so many people participate, and joy in knowing that our parish is alive with a spirit of generosity and service.

I’ve been thinking about it all week!

It was, without question, the best Ministry Fair we’ve had since I’ve been your Rector. And I can’t tell you how much hope that gives me—not just for the strength of our ministries today, but for the future God is shaping for us together as a parish.

I watched people discover ministries they didn’t even know about—someone signing up for the Holiday Jubilee with a smile, others drawn to serve as Lectors or Chalice Bearers.

And you could see it in their faces: signing up to volunteer wasn’t a chore or an obligation.

It was life-giving—a way for them to feel connected to something bigger than themselves.

There was one table, in particular, that really stood out to me.

Now, I don’t like to play favorites, but Deacon Antwon put together an incredible display for our Coat and Blanket Drive.

He probably spent hours working on it—crafting little coats out of construction paper, slipping small treats inside of them, and arranging it all in a way that caught your eye the moment you walked in the room.

It wasn’t just creative. It was inspiring—you could see the love he poured into it.

But more than the display itself, what really stood out for me was what it represented.

Each year during the holidays, we collect new and gently used coats and blankets, and on the third Saturday of December we give them away—not as a separate event, but as part of our Rice and Beans Ministry.

And if you’ve ever been part of that morning, you know it’s special.

Our neighbors come for groceries and a hot breakfast—like they do every month—but before they leave, they also receive the gift of warm clothes and blankets.

It’s a simple act of kindness, but in those moments, you can feel the love of Jesus.

That’s love in action.

That’s what it looks like—not to keep everything for ourselves—but to see the needs of our neighbors and respond with compassion and care.

And that’s exactly the kind of love that Jesus is pointing us to in our Gospel lesson this morning from Luke.

Jesus tells the story of two men.

The first one is rich—so rich that he dresses in fine clothes and feasts every day.

The other is poor, a man named Lazarus, who lies outside the gate—hungry and longing for crumbs from the rich man’s table.

The rich man never notices Lazarus. He goes about his life, day after day—eating and drinking, enjoying his comfort.

Then death comes for both of them.

And suddenly, the great reversal happens.

Lazarus is carried into the arms of Abraham, and the rich man finds himself alone and tormented in the flames.

If you were at church last Sunday, you might remember how the Gospel ended with Jesus saying, “You cannot serve God and wealth.”

He didn’t say wealth is evil. He didn’t say possessions are sinful. What he said was that you can’t serve both—you have to choose which one will hold your heart.

And today’s parable is really just an illustration of what happens when we choose wealth over God, when we choose to live only for ourselves.

The rich man’s life looks good on the outside—fine clothes, a full table, daily feasts. He wants for nothing.

But it’s all focused inward. He serves only himself, and because of that, he doesn’t even see the need right outside his own gate.

That’s the danger Jesus is warning us about.

Not simply that money is tempting, but that it can so easily blind us. It can make us think our security, our comfort, our success is what matters most.

And when we start to believe that, the distance between us and God grows wider and wider.

Now, a lot of people hear this story and immediately think, “Oh, this is what heaven and hell must be like.”

Lazarus dies and goes to paradise, the rich man dies and goes to torment—it seems simple enough.

But that’s not really the point Jesus is making here.

If Jesus wanted to tell us how to get to heaven, he would’ve done it very differently.

Instead, he tells us a parable, and parables are never meant to be taken literally.

They’re stories Jesus uses to shake us up, to shift our perspective, to reveal the truth of God’s Kingdom.

The images Jesus uses would’ve been very familiar to people in his own time.

The idea of a great chasm separating the righteous and the unrighteous was a common theme in Jewish storytelling.

“Abraham’s bosom” was a traditional way of describing God’s care for the faithful.

Even the details about flames and torment weren’t unique to Jesus—they were part of the religious imagination of the time.

Jesus used this imagery because it was familiar, dramatic, and sure to get people’s attention.

But the point is not “here’s what heaven and hell look like.” The point is, “Wake up now, before it’s too late.”

The tragedy of the rich man isn’t simply that he ends up in hell.

The real tragedy is that he lived his whole life blind to the poor man lying right outside his gate, and he didn’t even realize what he was missing.

By the time he finally sees clearly, there’s no way to go back and change it. What’s done is done.

Jesus is reminding us in this story: we only get one life.

One chance to notice, one chance to love, one chance to give. And the time for that isn’t tomorrow—it’s now.

I think about the rich man’s gate.

Day after day, he walked past it, probably without even thinking. And right there, in plain sight, was Lazarus. He wasn’t hidden. He wasn’t invisible. He was right there.

But the rich man never saw him.

And I wonder—who’s lying at our gates? Who are the people we walk past every day without noticing?

Maybe it’s someone in our community who’s hungry.

Maybe it’s a neighbor who’s lonely.

Maybe it’s a friend who’s struggling silently without anyone to talk to.

Maybe it’s even someone in our own family who needs love and attention.

How often do we fail to notice, because we’re too busy, too distracted, or too wrapped up in ourselves?

I think, for me, that’s why last week’s Ministry Fair was so inspiring.

Because it was one way for us to practice giving.

One way for us to practice seeing the needs of those around us and responding.

One way for us to say, “I want to live differently. I want to give. I want to serve. I want to love more deeply.”

The Coat and Blanket Drive is a perfect example, but there are so many others. The needs of our church and the needs of our community never go away. The only question is whether we’ll notice and respond.

And here’s the beautiful thing about giving. When we step forward and offer our gifts—we don’t just help others.

We ourselves are changed. We find joy and peace. We find community. We discover new life in Christ.

I saw that last week at the Ministry Fair.

I see it every month at Rice and Beans. I see it when coats and blankets are handed out in December.

I see it in the life of this parish—every time we choose to live not only for ourselves—but for the sake of others.

The parable of the Rich Man and Lazarus isn’t meant to frighten us. It’s meant to wake us up. To remind us that wealth, comfort, and security are not the measure of a good life—not in God’s eyes.

The true measure is love—love expressed in generosity, love expressed in service, love expressed in our willingness to see and respond to the needs of those around us.

Friends, we only have this one life to live.

And Jesus is clear—the time to notice, the time to love, the time to give is now—not tomorrow.

When we live generously—when we share what God has given us—we don’t just bless others. We are changed in the process. We taste the abundant life that God wants for us.

And in just a few moments, we’ll come to the Table—the place where Christ himself gives everything for us.

Here we are fed, not with crumbs from a rich man’s table, but with the bread of heaven and the cup of salvation.

Here we are reminded that our lives are not our own, that all we have is a gift from God.

Here we are strengthened to go out into the world and share what we’ve received.

So, come to the Table.

Come with open hands and open hearts.

Be fed.

Be filled with God’s grace.

And then go back through the gates of your own life with eyes wide open—ready to see, ready to give, ready to love. Because when we serve the least of these, we serve Christ himself.

Amen.

Reckless Love

A Sermon for the Fourteenth Sunday after Pentecost (Proper 19C)
The Baptism of Serena Grace Walker
September 14, 2025

Text: Luke 15:1-10

Now, O Lord, take my lips, and speak through them. Take our minds, and think through them. Take our hearts, and set them on fire. In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit. Amen.

This morning, I want to start with a song. Now, I’ll admit, I’m usually a traditionalist when it comes to church music. Give me a hymn from the 1982 Hymnal and I’m perfectly happy!

But every once in a while, I discover a newer song that captures a truth of the Gospel in such a powerful way that I can’t help but be moved by it.

For me, one of those songs is Reckless Love by Cory Asbury.

Some of you have probably heard it before, especially if you’re a fan of contemporary Christian music.

The chorus describes God’s love as overwhelming and never-ending, a love that pursues us and never gives up, a love that tears down walls and breaks through barriers to bring us home.

It goes like this:

Oh, the overwhelming, never-ending, reckless love of God.
Oh, it chases me down, fights ‘til I’m found, leaves the ninety-nine.
I couldn’t earn it, I don’t deserve it, still You give Yourself away.
Oh, the overwhelming, never-ending, reckless love of God.

Whenever I hear that song, I can’t help but think of the parable of Jesus we heard in our Gospel lesson this morning from Luke—the story of the shepherd who leaves the ninety-nine sheep behind in order to go and find the one that is lost.

It’s one of the simplest parables Jesus tells, and yet it’s also one of the most profound. 

A shepherd notices that one of his sheep is missing. Ninety-nine are still safe, but one is lost. 

And instead of being content with what remains, the shepherd goes out into the wilderness to search for the lost sheep. 

He doesn’t shrug his shoulders and say, “Well, at least most of the flock is okay.” He doesn’t write off the missing one as if it doesn’t matter. No—he goes, and he searches.

And when he finds that one lost sheep, he doesn’t punish it or drive it back with a stick. He lifts it onto his shoulders and carries it back home, rejoicing.

That’s what God’s love is like. 

It’s reckless, in the best sense of the word. 

Not careless, but extravagant. Unrelenting. Willing to go to any length to find us and bring us back home again.

And that’s the kind of love we celebrate today as we gather to baptize Serena Walker into the household of God and welcome her as the newest member of the Body of Christ.

Baptism is the beginning of our walk with Jesus. It’s the sign and seal of God’s reckless, relentless love.

In baptism, God does for us what the shepherd does for the lost sheep: God finds us, names us, claims us as his own, and carries us home.

It’s important for us to remember that in baptism, we don’t make God love us any more than he already does. God already loves us more than we can possibly imagine. 

What we do in baptism is recognize that love, respond to it, and commit ourselves to walk in it.

Baptism is deeply personal—it marks the beginning of our life in Christ. But it’s also communal—it binds us into the Body of Christ, the family of God. 

That’s why we celebrate the sacrament of Baptism as a church family and not in a private ceremony.

Here at St. Mary’s, we make the joy of baptism visible through our tradition of creating a banner for every person who is baptized or confirmed.

Each banner is unique, just as each of us is uniquely made by God. We hang them all in the Parish Hall, where they serve as a reminder that we belong not only to God, but also to one another.

When you look around and see those banners together, you see more than just fabric and color—you see a community stitched together in love.

And today, Serena’s banner will be added to that collection, a lasting sign that her life and her story are now woven into the story of this church and this family of faith.

Serena first came to St. Mary’s a couple of years ago as a junior in high school. At first, she was a little shy and a little unsure about this place called the Episcopal Church. 

She didn’t quite know what she would find here, or whether or not she would fit in. 

But over time, she discovered that she had a place here. 

She joined our choir as a choral scholar, and her voice became a gift to our worship. 

She found in this community a place where she could grow, ask questions, and feel at home.

Earlier this week, we met to talk about baptism, and one of the things Serena told me was how much this church has meant to her over the past two years. 

She said that one of the things she appreciates most about our parish is that we don’t judge others. 

Here, she found a faith community where she could be herself and feel welcomed, exactly how God made her.

A few weeks ago, at the end of choir practice, she came up to me and said, “Father Eric, before I leave for college, I want to be baptized.” 

Well…as you might imagine I went home that night with the biggest smile on my face, almost moved to tears, thanking God for this wonderful blessing. 

Thanking God for bringing Serena to us, even if it was only for a short time. Thanking God for being present in her life and opening her heart to the movement of the Spirit.

Next month, she’ll head west to Los Angeles to begin her college education, and when she leaves, she’ll carry this new identity with her into the next chapter of her life—child of God, marked as Christ’s own forever.

Serena’s decision to be baptized before she leaves for college is her way of saying yes to God’s love. 

But it’s also a reminder for all of us. 

Baptism isn’t just about one person’s story—it’s about the whole Church. Every baptism is a chance for us to remember who we are, and to renew the promises we made at the font.

Because baptism isn’t just about what God has done—it’s also about what comes next. 

It equips us to walk into the future with faith. It anchors us in God’s love no matter where life takes us.

And this is why baptism matters—not just for Serena, but for all of us.

No matter where we find ourselves in life—no matter what hardships we face—God never walks away. 

God is always with us. 

Given the week we’ve just lived through as a nation, I really needed that reminder.

I needed to be reminded this week of God’s relentless love—a love that seeks us out when we’re lost and brings us back home again.

On Wednesday night, I sat down at the dinner table with my kids, and like many of you, I felt the weight of the news from the day.

Earlier that day, we learned of the tragic death of a well-known public figure. Regardless of his politics or opinions—or whether or not you agreed with him—he was a child of God, a husband and a father, leaving behind a grieving family.

We also learned that there had been another school shooting, this time at a high school in Colorado, leaving two students critically injured and the person responsible dead.

Two tragic reminders of how fragile life is and how deeply our world is broken.

As we talked about it, I told the kids that sometimes the world feels like a dark and lonely place.

There are days when it seems like hope is slipping away, especially when we see all the ways people hurt one another.

We live in a time when even small disagreements can quickly turn into anger and division.

And this isn’t just an “us” versus “them” problem.

It’s not a matter of politics, or religion, or any one group.

It’s a “we” problem. We, as a society, have forgotten how to see the image of God in one another.

Until we recognize that we’re all responsible for the divisions, the anger, the violence, and the hostility, we’ll keep passing the blame back and forth and nothing will ever change.

We’ve stopped listening to each other.

We’ve stopped assuming the best in one another.

And too often, we’ve forgotten that even those we disagree with—even those who frustrate us or threaten us—are still children of God.

But here’s the Good News:

Yes, the darkness of our world is real, but it will never have the final word.

Just like the shepherd in Jesus’ story, God comes searching.

God finds us. God carries us home.

The waters of baptism remind us that God’s love is stronger than hate, stronger than violence, stronger even than death.

When we step into those waters, we step into the light that no darkness can overcome.

That’s why our faith matters so much.

Because in baptism, we’re reminded that there’s another way.

Baptism calls us out of the cycle of hostility and blame and into the way of Jesus—a way marked by mercy, forgiveness, and love.

Baptism reminds us that we’re not defined by the brokenness of the world, but by the love of God.

Baptism tells us that in the midst of darkness, we belong to the light.

Baptism calls us to live not for ourselves alone, but for Christ, who died and rose again.

And so today is not just a celebration for Serena.

It’s a reminder to all of us who have already been baptized.

The way of Jesus—the way of love—calls us to live differently.

When the world says, “hate your enemies,” Jesus says, “love your enemies and pray for them.”

When the world says, “hold tightly to what you have,” Jesus says, “give freely.”

When the world says, “you are what you achieve,” Jesus says, “you are God’s beloved, and nothing can ever change that.”

Today we remember what a gift baptism is—God’s promise of new life and relentless, reckless love.

Serena, in just a few moments, you’ll join us in the waters of baptism, and you’ll rise again—renewed and reborn, a new creation in Christ.

You’ll be marked with the sign of the cross and sealed as Christ’s own forever.

And as we see you claim this promise of new life, all of us will be called back to our own baptism—to remember that we too are children of the light, sent into the world to shine with Christ’s love.

We rejoice with you on this day.

We give thanks for your courage, your faith, and the future God has in store for you.

And we entrust you to the Good Shepherd—the one who seeks, the one who saves, and the one who rejoices over you with love that will never let you go.

Amen.

Let Mutual Love Continue

A Sermon for the Twelfth Sunday after Pentecost (Proper 17C)
August 31, 2025

Texts: Hebrews 13:1-8, 15-16 and Luke 14:1, 7-14

Now, O Lord, take my lips, and speak through them. Take our minds, and think through them. Take our hearts, and set them on fire. In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit. Amen.

I have a friend from seminary who’s now a priest in the Episcopal Church. One day, someone came up to him and asked him, “Why go to church?”

I’ll never forget his answer.

It wasn’t a long, theological explanation.

He just said, “Sometimes you need someone to show up at your door with a casserole.”

And he’s right.

Church isn’t just about Sunday worship or beautiful prayers.

It’s about people who show up when life is hard. It’s about having a family to lean on—especially in times like these.

Because these past couple of weeks have been tough.

I’ve felt it, and I know many of you have, too.

Our dear friends, Johny and Sandra Odom, lost their daughter, Jenny, this past week. She left behind a loving husband and three wonderful children, including our beloved Maci, who watches over our children in the nursery.

We had a beautiful memorial service for Jenny yesterday at her church in Red Level.

Our dear sister in Christ, Joanne Boswell—mother of Debbie Grimes—is with God now.

I was with Joanne and Debbie and their family on Tuesday afternoon, as we gathered around Joanne’s bedside in the hospital and prayed Last Rites together.

It was a beautiful and tender moment, and I know it’s what Joanne would have wanted.

And a little over a week ago, our former rector at St. Mary’s, Mother Cindy, died unexpectedly and entered into the nearer presence of God.

She touched the lives of so many of us here, and countless others in this community and beyond. She was a faithful priest, a dear friend, and she will be deeply missed.

I don’t name these losses to open fresh wounds.

I name them because they are real, because they are heavy on our hearts, and because this is what it means to be church—we hold these things before God together.

We don’t walk through them alone.

I’ll be honest.

There’ve been moments this past week when it felt overwhelming, like the grief was piling up faster than I could catch my breath.

Phone call after phone call. Email after email. Services to plan, volunteers to line up, prayers to offer.

It’s been a lot to take in at one time.

And yet—in the midst of all this sadness—I’ve also witnessed something holy.

I’ve seen people step up and volunteer to serve, to bring meals, to sit quietly with those who are hurting, to simply show up and pray.

I’ve seen people drive to and from Birmingham to celebrate the life of a friend and former priest and offer condolences to a grieving family.

Many of those people are here today, and I want to say, “Thank you.”

Thank you for showing up.

Thank you for being present.

Thank you for doing all the little things I don’t even know about.

In these small but powerful ways, you’ve been embodying the words of Scripture we heard earlier this morning in our lesson from Hebrews:

“Let mutual love continue. Do not neglect to show hospitality.”

That phrase, “Let mutual love continue,” has stayed with me all week. 

It’s short. Simple. Easy to remember.

But it’s also powerful.

In fact, I want us to hold onto it as a kind of refrain this morning—as a touchstone for our life together in this moment of grief and hope.

So, if you don’t remember anything else I say, I want you to remember this: Let mutual love continue.

Let’s say it together: Let mutual love continue.

The passage we heard this morning from Hebrews comes at the very end of the letter.

We don’t know who exactly wrote Hebrews, but we do know it was written to an early group of Jewish Christians who were tired, discouraged, and struggling to keep their faith. 

They were facing pressure from the culture around them, and some were even tempted to turn away from their faith in Christ.

The whole letter—from beginning to end—is a reminder that Jesus is worth holding onto—that he is greater than the angels, greater than Moses, greater than the sacrifices and rituals of the old covenant.

And when you get to the last chapter of Hebrews, the author gets practical:

Here’s how you live, here’s how you keep the faith, here’s how you care for one another.

And it begins right here in our lesson this morning:

“Let mutual love continue. Do not neglect to show hospitality to strangers, for by doing that some have entertained angels without knowing it.”

For me, the word that really stands out in this passage is “hospitality.”

Now, normally, when we think about hospitality, we think about someone who gives it and someone who receives it—a host and a guest.

But, in Scripture, it’s never one-sided.

It’s not just about the host giving and the guest receiving. Both are important, and both are blessed in the exchange.

And that’s exactly what Hebrews is pointing to.

Hospitality isn’t just about setting out a nice table or offering someone a comfortable chair or holding the door open for someone.

It’s about opening your life—your time, your resources, your heart—to another person and being blessed in the process.

It’s about making room for others, seeing them as a guest of God.

It’s about treating the stranger not with suspicion, but as if they might be an angel in disguise.

That’s a radical, risky kind of hospitality—the kind that Jesus calls us to.

And it’s the kind of hospitality I’ve seen in you—especially over this past week.

Every time you’ve delivered a meal, or written a card, or shown up to a funeral, you’ve been practicing hospitality.

You’ve been saying to those who grieve, “You are not alone. You are loved. And you don’t have to carry this burden by yourself.”

And in that love—in that hospitality—you’ve been living out the command: Let mutual love continue.

In our Gospel reading today from Luke, we heard the Parable of the Wedding Banquet, the one where Jesus says, “When you are invited, don’t sit down at the place of honor, but take the lowest place.”

At first, it might seem like a lesson in manners.

But, it’s more than that.

It’s really about humility.

It’s about remembering that the Kingdom of God doesn’t work like the kingdoms of this world.

The world tells us to climb higher, to seek places of honor, to claim what’s rightfully ours.

But Jesus flips the script.

He says the guest who humbles himself is the one who is honored.

The one who takes the lower place is the one who’s lifted up.

C.S. Lewis said it this way: “Humility is not thinking less of yourself, but thinking of yourself less.”

In other words, humility isn’t about denying your worth or pretending you don’t matter.

It’s about turning your gaze outward—making room for others, giving attention to their needs, and finding joy in lifting them up.

That sounds a lot like hospitality, does’t it?

It sounds a lot like what I’ve seen in this parish—people setting aside their own comfort to care for others, people showing up without needing recognition, people making room for one another in the midst of grief—simply because it’s the loving thing to do.

It’s humility and hospitality, woven together by one simple refrain: Let mutual love continue.

If you want another way to think about it, it’s also what we practice every time we gather at this table.

In the Eucharist, we practice mutual love.

Christ is both the host and the guest.

He welcomes us to feast at God’s Table and pours out upon us the gift of grace.

And at the same time, he makes his home within us. We welcome Jesus into our hearts and carry him with us wherever we go.

At this table, the proud are humbled and the humble are lifted up.

Here, the hungry are fed, and the grieving are comforted.

And from here, we’re sent back out into the world to extend the same love and welcome we’ve received.

So in our grief, in our service, in our worship, let us hold fast to these words. Let them be our touchstone, our anchor, our calling: Let mutual love continue.

When sorrow weighs heavy on our hearts and we start to feel overwhelmed or afraid, let mutual love continue.

When meals are shared and prayers are offered with those who grieve, let mutual love continue.

When we gather at the table of our Lord, let mutual love continue.

When we step back into the world, carrying both our grief and our hope, may those words go with us still: Let mutual love continue.

Because it’s in that love—in mutual, humble, hospitable love—that we find Christ present with us.

And that’s what will carry us through.

So, say it with me again: Let mutual love continue.

Amen.

Love Comes First

A Sermon for the Eleventh Sunday after Pentecost (Proper 16C)
August 24, 2025

Text: Luke 13:10-17

Now, O Lord, take my lips, and speak through them. Take our minds, and think through them. Take our hearts, and set them on fire. In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit. Amen.

When I was in the second grade at Pinedale Elementary School in Enterprise, my teacher, Ms. Sellers, had a system for keeping us in line.

Maybe some of you remember something like this from your own school days.

On the wall, she had a big chart with every student’s name written on it. Above each name, there was a pocket with a set of colored cards.

Every morning you started out on green.

If you broke a rule—talked out of turn, forgot your homework, maybe pushed someone in line—you had to get up, walk over to the wall in shame, and change your card.

Green meant you were good.

Yellow meant a warning.

And if you ended up on red, that meant you were in serious trouble.

Now, thankfully, I was never one of those students who had to change my card. (At least, that’s how I remember it!)

But even as a seven-year-old in Ms. Sellers’ class, I learned that rules were serious business and that breaking the rules came with consequences.

Rules are rules. That’s what my teacher taught us.

And of course, rules do matter, right?

We teach our children rules so they can learn right from wrong and stay safe.

We have rules of the road so we can drive without getting hurt or hurting someone else.

We have rules in our households and schools to give structure and order.

But, I think most of us have lived long enough to know that sometimes, rules can get in the way of what really matters.

Sometimes rules—or the way we interpret them—can keep us from doing the good that God is calling us to do.

And that’s exactly what’s happening in our Gospel reading for today.


Luke tells us that Jesus was teaching in a synagogue on the Sabbath day.

Now, the Sabbath was holy to the Jewish people, a sacred day meant to be observed and protected. 

It was one of the Ten Commandments: “Remember the Sabbath day, and keep it holy.”

It was meant to be a gift for God’s people—a day of rest, renewal, and worship.

But over time, that gift became buried under layers of man-made rules.

What started as a blessing could feel more like a burden.

By Jesus’ time, rabbis had created long lists of what counted as “work” and what didn’t—a kind of do’s-and-don’ts guide for the Sabbath.

There were rules about how far you could walk, what you could carry, even whether healing someone was considered “work.”

Even helping someone could be seen as breaking the rules.

Instead of joy, the Sabbath could bring anxiety.

People worried more about breaking a rule than honoring God. And religious leaders often used these rules to control people and protect their own authority.

And then, we have Jesus, who sees this woman in a synagogue who’s been bent over for eighteen years.

She couldn’t stand up straight.

She couldn’t look people in the eye or see the faces of those she loved.

She carried not just a physical burden, but the emotional and spiritual weight of being overlooked, diminished, and forgotten.

Jesus calls her over.

He lays his hands on her, and immediately, she is healed.

She stands up straight.

For the first time in eighteen years, she can look people in the face.

She can see the sky.

She can see the light in the eyes of her neighbors.

She can praise God.

But instead of rejoicing, the leader of the synagogue gets angry.

He says, “There are six days on which work ought to be done; come on those days and be cured, and not on the Sabbath day.”

In other words: Rules are rules.

The healing was good.

But it broke the rules, and that’s one step too far.

Jesus responds with righteous anger.

“You hypocrites! Doesn’t each one of you untie your ox or your donkey on the Sabbath, and lead it to water? Then ought not this woman, a daughter of Abraham, whom Satan bound for eighteen long years, be set free from this bondage on the Sabbath day?”

Love comes first, Jesus says. The commandment to love God and love your neighbor outweighs every other rule.

That is the heart of this story: love—not rules, not appearances, not customs—is what should guide us.

When we love God with all our heart, soul, mind, and strength, and love our neighbors as ourselves, then the rest of the law begins to make sense.

We begin to see what God really desires for us: life, healing, compassion, and restoration—not rigid rule-keeping.

Rules still matter, of course. But love comes first.

If following a rule prevents us from loving God or our neighbor, then we’ve lost sight of what God intends.

The Sabbath was meant to give rest, not to be a burden.

What greater rest could there be for the bent-over woman than to be set free from her suffering?

The law was meant to guide people closer to God, not separate us.

What greater closeness could there be than standing upright for the first time in eighteen years and giving glory to God?

By healing on the Sabbath, Jesus challenged the religious leaders. He put his reputation on the line. He invited controversy. He stepped into conflict.

But he did it because love demanded it.

And that’s what discipleship looks like.

To follow Jesus is to let love be our guide, even when it’s risky—even when it challenges what others might consider “normal.”


That’s the kind of calling we have here in this church: to let love be our guide.

To risk doing things that maybe other people don’t understand.

To open our doors and our hearts wide enough that everyone knows they have a place here.

That’s why we have ministries like our Rice and Beans Ministry—handing out free bags of groceries every month on the third Saturday, along with a hot breakfast. Because people are hungry, and Jesus calls us to feed them. We feed people’s stomachs, but we also feed their souls because when they come through our doors, they know they’ll be welcomed here, no questions asked.

We host Laundry Love every month on the third Thursday—covering the cost of washing and drying people’s clothes. Because love means honoring the dignity of every person and looking after the small, important things—like having clean laundry.

We offer Community Dinners every year on Thanksgiving and Christmas—providing holiday meals for those who might be alone or unable to cook for themselves. And not only do we serve them here, but we deliver meals to those who are homebound. Because love finds a way to show up at someone’s door.

We provide space for AA groups to meet here every week. Because healing comes in many forms, and love makes room for people to gather in honesty and hope.

And every December we hold a Coat and Blanket Drive, collecting and distributing warm clothes for those in need. Because love calls us to care for the needs of others.

Other churches might not do all these things.

They might say, “That’s not really the job of a church.” Or, “That’s not how we do things here.”

But friends, we should never apologize for who we are or what God has called us to do. The ministries we have to offer—the way we show up in our community and care for those around us—reflect the heart of the Gospel.

And it’s not just in our outreach ministries.

It’s also in the way we welcome people here, every Sunday. We mean what we say when we say, “All are welcome.”

In this church, we believe everyone has a place at the Table.

It doesn’t matter where you come from.

It doesn’t matter how much money you make.

It doesn’t matter if you’re a life-long Episcopalian or if this is your first Sunday ever setting foot in a church.

Here, you are welcome.

Here, you are loved exactly how God made you.

Here, you can find peace in knowing that you are God’s beloved and that nothing can ever separate you from that love.

Friends, Jesus calls us to live by love.

Sometimes that means breaking tradition.

Sometimes it means taking risks.

Sometimes it means stepping outside what feels comfortable.

But when love is our guide, we discover freedom—not just for others, but for ourselves.

Think about it for a moment.

The bent-over woman who was healed by Jesus wasn’t the only one set free that day.

The whole community saw God’s power to heal.

They saw that the Sabbath wasn’t about restrictions—but about life.

They saw that God’s love was bigger than their rules.

And when we live that way—when we let love be our rule—we too are set free.

Amen.

The Gift of Shared Ministry

A Sermon for the Celebration of a New Ministry
Holy Nativity Episcopal Church
Panama City, Florida
Wednesday, August 20, 2025

Texts: Psalm 100 and John 15:9-11

Now, O Lord, take my lips, and speak through them. Take our minds, and think through them. Take our hearts, and set them on fire. In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit. Amen.

Good evening! My name is Eric Mancil, and I serve as rector of St. Mary’s Episcopal Church in Andalusia, Alabama. I bring you greetings tonight from the people of St. Mary’s and from the northern half of our diocese.

It is a joy and a blessing to be with you on this special occasion.

And let me begin by saying thank you.

Thank you, Forbes, for inviting me to preach tonight, and thank you all for allowing me to be part of this celebration.

It’s always a joy to gather for moments like this—moments that remind us that God is still moving in the life of our Church. The Spirit is still calling, still sending, still shaping us into something new.

When Forbes called me a few weeks ago to invite me to preach tonight, I was truly honored.

And one of the first questions I asked him was, “Which lessons are you planning to use for the service?”

He said he’d need a couple of days to decide, but he already knew one for sure, and that was Psalm 100.

Now, Psalm 100 isn’t one we usually hear at the Celebration of a New Ministry, so I asked him why he chose it.

He told me it’s been deeply meaningful in his own prayer life—and it’s the same scripture he shared with you in his letter when he accepted your call as rector.

And I have to say, I think it’s a beautiful choice.

Psalm 100 is a song of joy and thanksgiving, a reminder that God is faithful and good.

It opens with those familiar words:

“Be joyful in the LORD, all you lands; serve the LORD with gladness and come before his presence with a song.”

What better way to begin a new season of ministry together than with that invitation—to be people of joy, gratitude, and praise?

And that same spirit of joy and gratitude flows directly into our Gospel reading for tonight.

In John’s Gospel, Jesus is gathered with his disciples in the Upper Room on the night before his crucifixion.

He has just washed their feet, shared bread and wine, and is preparing them for what is about to happen.

These are his final words to the friends he has walked with for the past three years—his last chance to teach them what matters most.

And what does he say?

“As the Father has loved me, so I have loved you; abide in my love. If you keep my commandments, you will abide in my love, just as I have kept my Father’s commandments and abide in his love. I have said these things to you so that my joy may be in you, and that your joy may be complete.”

Notice the connection between these two passages.

Psalm 100 invites us to be joyful—to enter God’s presence with gladness and thanksgiving.

In the Gospel, Jesus invites us to abide in his love so that our joy may be complete.

Together, these lessons remind us that true joy doesn’t depend on what’s happening around us.

It doesn’t depend on our circumstances.

True joy comes from knowing that God is with us and that we are held in his love.

It comes from knowing that we are following the way of Jesus, which is the way of love.

The joy we hear in tonight’s readings is deeply connected to the work of ministry—which makes it especially fitting for this night, as we celebrate the beginning of something new here at Holy Nativity.

And I don’t just mean Forbes’s ministry. I mean your ministry—the ministry you’re called to share with him, and with one another

Ministry isn’t something we do alone.

It’s a journey we walk together.

I was reminded of this early on in my vocation as a priest.

Several years ago, when I was still a “baby priest” and shortly before I accepted my first call in the Diocese of Alabama, I was invited to visit with Bishop Kee Sloan in his office in downtown Birmingham.

You see, in our church, the bishop has the final say in whether a candidate for rector may serve at a parish.

So this visit was part conversation, part discernment, and—I suspect—to make sure I wasn’t going to do anything too crazy!

Early in our conversation, Bishop Kee said something that has stayed with me ever since and has guided me in my life as a priest and pastor.

In his quiet, gentle way—the way he speaks that makes every word feel important—Bishop Kee said, “We are a relational diocese.”

What he meant was that this diocese values relationships and practices genuine hospitality.

Whoever you are, wherever you come from, you are welcomed—and you are called to walk alongside others in ministry, not alone.

Hearing that then, I thought to myself, “Yes, this is exactly why I want to be here!”

This is the diocese that welcomed me into the Episcopal Church, that supported campus ministry and young adult ministry—ministries that shaped my life profoundly and led me to discern a call to the priesthood.

And in that moment with Bishop Kee, I realized something important: ministry is more than just friendship.

It is companionship—it’s walking together, growing together, supporting each other, and sharing the work and the joys of God’s call.

I was reminded of this again last summer, when Forbes and I traveled to Ghost Ranch in Abiquiu, New Mexico, for a preaching conference—a place that feels like it’s literally in the middle of nowhere.

During periods of free time, we had the opportunity to explore the area, and one afternoon we decided to visit the Monastery of Christ in the Desert—a Benedictine monastery just a few miles from the ranch.

The funny thing is, even though the monastery was only a few miles away, it took us almost an hour to get there because we had to drive so slowly.

The road twisted and turned, and parts of it were only wide enough for one vehicle to pass through.

The monastery itself was stunning, set against the red desert mountains and wide, open sky.

But, what I remember most about that trip wasn’t the chapel or the grounds or the gift shop (you know every monastery has to have a gift shop).

It was our journey there—driving through the desert, stopping to take in the beautiful landscapes, sharing stories about our hopes and struggles in ministry.

Those hours in the car gave me the chance to really get to know Forbes—his heart for ministry, his insights, and his care for people—and to share my own experience with him.

Visiting the monastery was certainly worth the time, but what made the trip memorable was the companionship—the laughter, the conversation, the shared stories along the way.

That’s what ministry is all about.

It’s never a solo act.

It’s a shared journey, and the road becomes joyful when we walk it together.

Which brings me to something important I want to share with you tonight.

You know…as a guest preacher, I have a little bit of a special privilege. I get to come in, speak what’s on my heart, and then drive back home.

That also means I get to say some things that your priest might not feel comfortable sharing, especially when he’s only been here a few months.

So here’s the truth I want you to hear—and I want you to let it sink in for a moment: Forbes cannot do this ministry alone.

He’s a talented priest, and he’ll serve you well.

But, he’s going to need your help—your prayers, your gifts, your time, your presence, and—most importantly—your love.

It can be tempting, especially when a new priest arrives, to think: “Father is finally here! Hallelujah! Now he can take over everything. He’ll fix all the problems, lead all the programs, carry the load we’ve been carrying.”

But friends, trust me when I say this. That is a heavy burden for any priest to carry. I say that from personal experience.

No one can carry the full weight of a parish alone without growing weary, discouraged, or even burned out.

So, I’ll say it again:

Ministry is meant to be shared.

When you walk alongside Forbes, sharing both the work and the joys of this parish, you’re not just supporting him—you’re stepping into the joy Jesus promises, the deep joy that comes from living, serving, and growing together in God’s love.

If you remember nothing else, remember this: the life of a parish does not rest on the shoulders of one person.

It flourishes when the whole community comes together, each offering what God has given, each supporting one another in love and faithfulness.

You’ve called a wonderful priest in Forbes, and my prayer for you is that this relationship will last for many years to come.

So, in the words of Bishop Kee, who once preached at my Celebration of a New Ministry, “Don’t mess it up.”

Forbes is faithful and devoted, but he will need your partnership—not just your applause, your gratitude, or your presence in worship—but your active involvement in the life of this parish.

Ministry is not just his work—it’s yours too.

And as you walk this road together—Forbes with you, and you with him—may you experience the joy that both the psalmist and Jesus speak of: the joy of belonging to God, the joy of abiding in Christ’s love, and the joy of walking together as companions along the way.

Amen.

Sir, We Wish to See Jesus

A Sermon for the Feast of St. Mary the Virgin
Sunday, August 17, 2025

Text: Luke 1:46-66

Now, O Lord, take my lips, and speak through them. Take our minds, and think through them. Take our hearts, and set them on fire. In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit. Amen.

Over the years, I’ve spent a lot of time reflecting on the sacred spaces where we gather to worship. Every church—every community of faith—has its own history and personality, shaped not just by the building itself but by the countless stories woven through its walls.

Take our church, for example.

St. Mary’s began on Second Avenue in Andalusia, just around the corner.

The original building was built in the late 1940s, and when the parish moved to this location and a new church was needed to accommodate more people, part of that old building was incorporated into the new design.

So, when you walk into the Library—just to my left—you’re actually standing in the very space where St. Mary’s parishioners worshiped long before this building ever existed.

Our churches tell stories—not just of where we’ve been, but of where God is leading us to go.

Some of these stories are easy to see in things like stained glass windows, altar tables, or pieces of art.

Others live quietly in small details you might miss unless you look closely.

One of my favorite examples of these small, hidden treasures can be found in many Episcopal churches.

If you step behind the pulpit, you might just find a small, brass plaque with a short but powerful verse from John’s Gospel:

“Sir, we wish to see Jesus” (John 12:21).

Those words come from a moment when some Greeks—outsiders who were curious about Jesus—approached one of the disciples, and said, “We want to meet Jesus. We want to know who he really is.”

It’s such a simple request.

But it carries tremendous weight—even for us today.

These words capture the heart of what every person longs for at some point, especially those of us who come to church seeking a closer relationship with God.

We want to experience something real. Something true. Something holy.

To see Jesus is more than just looking back at a figure from history or hearing a story from two thousand years ago.

It’s to encounter the living presence of God, who loves us, knows us, and calls us into new life.

That short phrase—“Sir, we wish to see Jesus”—reminds us why we gather here to worship, week after week.

It’s not about tradition or routine or checking a box.

It’s about creating a space where people can come as they are, with questions, hopes, and even fears, and find Jesus waiting for them.

Well, I decided months ago that our pulpit needed one of those reminders—a small plaque that reads, “Sir, we wish to see Jesus.”

So, I went online and ordered one. And about a week later, I was standing right here with my screwdriver, nervously attaching it to the pulpit.

Now, I’ll be honest…

I didn’t exactly run it by the Altar Guild first. Which is risky, I know—because if the Holy Spirit moves something, the Altar Guild will move it right back.

But, since it was small and mostly out of sight, I figured I might get away with it… at least until now.

All joking aside, I’m so glad I did it.

Because, now, every time I stand behind this pulpit, I’m reminded of what my job really is.

It’s not to impress you.

It’s not to entertain you.

It’s not even to share my own opinions.

It’s to help you see Jesus.

To open up the Scriptures in a way that makes your heart say, “Yes, Lord, I see you.”

To tell the stories of God’s love so clearly that you leave this place, not just thinking about Jesus, but wanting to follow him more closely.

And here’s the thing—it’s not just the preacher’s job.

This calling belongs to all of us—every person in this room, whether you’ve been here for decades and worshiped in the old church on Second Avenue or just walked through our doors for the first time last week.

Each of us has the opportunity—and responsibility—to help someone else see Jesus.

Through our words.

Through acts of kindness and generosity.

Through listening when the world urges us to argue.

Through showing up when it would be easier to walk away.

Sometimes with words, sometimes with actions—but always as a witness to the love of God in Christ Jesus.

And if you want to know what that looks like, just take a look at the past week in our parish.

Since last Sunday…

A group of women met with our Daughters of the King chapter, committing to a time of prayer and discernment as they decide whether or not they’re being called to that ministry.

A group of men showed up early Monday to clean out a broken freezer in the kitchen, and while they were at it, they pressure washed all the floor mats.

I had some wonderful conversations with members about upcoming events like our Holiday Jubilee in December and our 5K in February.

We had a healing service on Wednesday at noon, where people came to ask for healing and wholeness, for themselves and for others.

Our Altar Guild quietly cared for the sanctuary, making sure everything was ready for today’s celebration.

The choir gathered on Wednesday night for rehearsal, lifting their voices to God and preparing beautiful music for weeks to come.

Members of the EYC gathered for prayer and Bible study at the local coffee shop.

On Friday, volunteers packed bags of food for those in need. And Saturday morning, many came back to serve a hot breakfast to our community.

That’s just one week.

And those are only the things I know about—there are countless acts of love and service happening quietly every day, without any recognition.

Just recently, I told my wife, “There’s a renewed spirit and energy in this place.” And I really believe it.

Our parish is alive and well, and we’re growing—not just in numbers but in our faith.

That’s not just something to feel good about; it’s something that matters deeply.

Why?

Because God needs it.

God needs this parish to be a light in the midst of the darkness.

The world around us is full of fear, hatred, and division.

It can feel overwhelming at times—the way people only seem to care about themselves or the way people cling to fear or forget how to listen and love.

But here, in this parish, we choose a better way.

We come together as a community of faith—not because we all look the same or agree on everything, but because we share something deeper.

We share a Table, where Christ not only meets us, but also draws us closer to one another.

We share a purpose—to live out God’s love in the world.

We share a hope, grounded not in our own strength but in the promise of resurrection.

Mary’s song, the Magnificat, which we heard in the Gospel today, captures this hope perfectly.

It’s a song of joy and surprise—because God does the unexpected.

He lifts up the lowly.

He fills the hungry with good things.

He scatters the proud.

God’s mercy overturns the powers of this world and sets a new kingdom in motion—one built on justice, peace, and love.

That song—the Magnificat—is not just Mary’s song.

It’s our song as well, and we’re singing it today.

We are a wonderfully diverse group of people, with many stories and backgrounds. And yet, despite our differences, we gather around the altar as one Body in Christ.

That unity is no small thing.

It’s a sign of the Holy Spirit at work.

God’s love calls us out of fear into courage. Out of division into community. Out of isolation into mission.

Together, we have the ability—each one of us—to show the world a better way.

And that’s the way of love.

So, as we celebrate today and remember Blessed Mary, who said to the angel, “Let it be to me according to your word,” may we also say “yes” to the call God places on each of our lives.

May we be a community of faith that welcomes all, loves without condition, and serves without expecting anything in return.

May we live out the hope of the Magnificat, opening our hearts to God’s transforming work in the world around us.

And, most of all, may we help others see Jesus—not just from this pulpit, but in our words, in our actions, and in the way we live as a community.

Because when the world sees Jesus in us, it catches a glimpse of God’s Kingdom breaking into the world—healing what is broken, binding up the wounded, and drawing all people to him.

And that, my friends, is not only the best way to honor Mary’s witness—it’s the very heart of our calling as followers of Jesus.

Amen.

The Barns We Build

A Sermon for the Eighth Sunday after Pentecost (Proper 13C)
August 3, 2025

Text: Luke 12: 13-21

Now, O Lord, take my lips, and speak through them. Take our minds, and think through them. Take our hearts, and set them on fire. In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit. Amen.

A few weeks ago, I did something that may not seem like a big deal—but it’s had a profound impact on my life. I shared a little about it in the newsletter recently.

I decided to delete Facebook and Instagram from my phone.

Now, I didn’t delete my accounts. I can still log in from my computer if I need to, especially for church-related things. And I didn’t do it because I think social media is bad or wrong.

There’s a lot I really like about it—sweet family updates, funny videos, thoughtful reflections. Social media can be a real gift when it helps us stay connected to the people we love and care about.

But I removed the apps from my phone because I realized I was spending way too much time with my head down, staring at a screen.

It was automatic. Every quiet moment—waking up in the morning, standing in line at the store, waiting for the coffee to brew—I’d reach for my phone and open one of those apps without even thinking about it.

And it wasn’t just the time I was spending. It was also the weight of it all.

So much negativity. So much division. So much bad news.

And behind all of that, this constant, subtle pressure to compare my life to someone else’s. Their vacation, their success, their church, their home. I’d start to wonder if I was doing enough or if I even was enough.

Little by little, it started to wear on my spirit. I felt more anxious, more discouraged—like the world was too broken, and I was too small to make any difference.

So, I deleted the apps.

And what surprised me most was what happened after that.

I felt peace. I don’t mean just a little relief—but an overwhelming sense of peace and freedom. I felt less anxious. More clearheaded. More present. More like myself.

And I started to wonder: how much space had all that noise been taking up in my heart?

And—maybe more to the point—what was it all for?


That question—“what is all of this for?”—stopped me in my tracks. It’s the same question Jesus invites us to ask in today’s Gospel.

In our story from Luke, Jesus tells the crowd a parable about a rich man whose land produces an abundance of grain—so much that he runs out of room to store it all.

So, he comes up with a solution: tear down his old barns and build bigger ones. That way, he thinks, he’ll be safe and secure secure. He’ll have more than enough to just relax and enjoy life for years to come.

But just as he’s patting himself on the back, God speaks.

“You fool,” God says, “This very night your life will be demanded of you. And the things you’ve prepared—whose will they be?”

Then Jesus ends with this line: “So it is with those who store up treasures for themselves but are not rich toward God.”

In other words—it’s foolish to pour all our energy into securing and storing up things for ourselves, while ignoring the things that matter most to God.

Now, to be fair, the man in the parable isn’t portrayed as evil or cruel. He doesn’t hurt anyone. He doesn’t cheat or steal. He’s not greedy in the way we might expect.

But here’s the problem: he thinks his life can be secured by what he stores up.

He thinks he can protect himself from the unknown by building bigger barns.

In one way or another, we all do that.

We all build barns—not literal barns full of grain, but spiritual ones. Internal ones. Ways of trying to keep ourselves safe, in control, or just a little more secure.

Some of us build barns with money. Not because we’re selfish, but because we’re afraid. We think, “If I can just get a little more saved up, if I can stay a little more ahead, then I’ll be okay.”

There’s nothing wrong with planning or saving. But sometimes our barns become walls—walls that keep us from being generous, or trusting that God will provide.

Some of us build barns with busyness. We fill every hour of every day—work, school, errands, ballgames, meetings, care-taking. Even good and noble things, like volunteering at church.

But sometimes, busyness becomes a barn we hide in—a way to avoid the deeper parts of our hearts that are longing for rest or healing.

Some of us build barns out of achievements. We believe that if we’re successful enough, productive enough, capable enough—then we’ll be worthy of love.

But the bar keeps moving. There’s always something more to fix, more to prove, more to achieve.

Some of us build barns out of screens. We scroll endlessly. We compare our real lives to someone else’s highlight reel. We let the world shout at us through every device we own.

And instead of feeling connected, we feel lonelier. Instead of clarity, we feel overwhelmed. Instead of peace, we carry noise.

Some of us build barns out of grudges or regret. We store up old wounds like they’re treasure. We replay past mistakes over and over again.

And instead of offering those to God for healing, we box them up, tuck them away, and carry them around with us.

And some of us build barns out of worry. We worry about our children, our future, our health, our church, our world. Worry becomes the barn we live in—always bracing for what’s next, always trying to stay in control.

But here’s the hard truth about the barns we build:

None of them can hold what we really need.

They may give the illusion of security or success or comfort. But they can’t give us peace. They can’t give us joy. They can’t teach us how to love, or help us live the kind of life that God wants us to live.

Jesus tells this parable not to shame us—but to set us free.

To say: “Your life does not consist in the abundance of possessions.”

Your life—your real, meaningful, holy, God-given life—isn’t measured by what you accumulate or how well you perform.

It’s measured by how much room you make for the things that last:

Grace.

Gratitude.

Generosity.

Relationship.

Trust.

Love.

That’s what it means to be “rich toward God.”

To be rich toward God means we don’t store up everything for ourselves. We open our hands. We make space. We notice others. We trust that what we have—what we are—is already enough.

When I deleted those social media apps, I didn’t expect to feel so free.

But it was like tearing down a little barn I didn’t even know I’d built. A barn full of comparison, distraction, pressure, and fear.

And in the quiet that followed, I heard God’s voice more clearly. I started praying more. I noticed beauty around me. I felt more present. More grounded. More at peace.

I remembered: God isn’t interested in how much we collect or achieve.

God is interested in how much we love.

How much we trust.

How much we’re willing to be present—to others and to God.


Jesus ends his parable with a challenge—but also an invitation.

Tear down the barns that are holding you back.

Tear down the idea that you’re only as valuable as what you own, or what you do, or what you look like.

Tear down the busyness, the fear, the comparison, the distraction.

And make space for something better.

Because the truth is, none of us is guaranteed tomorrow.

Our lives are short, but they can be full.

Not full of noise or distractions. But full of God.

So today, maybe Jesus is inviting you to name one barn you’ve built.

Maybe it’s a schedule that’s too full.

Maybe it’s a grudge you’ve been holding on to for a long time.

Maybe it’s a voice in your head that tells you you’re not enough.

Or, maybe it’s a screen that’s keeping you distracted from your own life.

Whatever it is, name it—and tear it down.

Because on the other side of that barn, there is freedom.

There is peace.

And there is more life than you can imagine.

Not because of what you store up—but because of what God pours out.

Amen.

Lord, Teach Us To Pray

A Sermon for the Seventh Sunday after Pentecost (Proper 12C)
July 27, 2025

Text: Luke 11:1-13

Now, O Lord, take my lips, and speak through them. Take our minds, and think through them. Take our hearts, and set them on fire. In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit. Amen.

If I were to ask you, “Why do you pray?” what would your answer be?

You might say, “I pray because, without it, my day just doesn’t feel complete.”

For many of us, our daily prayer time is the only time when we can pause—when we can be still and quiet and simply rest in the presence of God.

Maybe for you, prayer is a source of comfort and peace. A moment of calm in the middle of life’s noise. A way of stepping outside the busyness to reconnect with something deeper, something more holy.

Or maybe you’d say, “I pray because that’s how I was raised.”

If you grew up in the church, you probably had at least one Sunday School teacher—or parent or godparent—who taught you the importance of prayer. You learned the words, you memorized the prayers, and you’ve held onto that practice ever since.

Or, maybe you’d say, “I pray because I need something from God.”

That’s probably the most common response.

How many of us have poured out our hearts to God in prayer—naming our hopes, our needs, our fears—desperately wanting God to intervene?

I know I have.

Maybe you’re in one of those seasons right now.

Maybe you’re praying for that new job or big promotion coming up at work.

Maybe you’re praying about a situation that feels completely out of your control.

Or maybe—and this is where many of us find ourselves—you’re praying for healing, for yourself, or for someone you love.

Whatever it is, we pray because something inside us longs to believe that someone is listening.

So, let me ask again.

Why do you pray?

Have you ever thought about it before?

If you’ve sat through any of my confirmation classes, you know we talk about this a lot. Prayer is one of the most essential parts of who we are as Christians.

We talk about what prayer is, why it matters, and the many ways we can practice it.

Contemplative silence. Spoken prayers. Reading the Daily Office out of the Prayer Book.

There’s no single “right” way to pray—and different forms work for different people.

But here’s what I think matters most: not just how we pray, but why we pray.

Because if we’re not careful, prayer can become just a means to an end.

A way to get something we think we need.

We treat it like a transaction—put in the right words, get the right result.

But that’s not what prayer is for.

Of course, God wants to hear our needs. There’s nothing wrong with asking God for help, for guidance, or for healing.

But at the end of the day, prayer isn’t about changing God’s mind.

Prayer is about drawing close to the heart of God—about letting God shape us.

The Catechism in the back of The Book of Common Prayer puts it beautifully:

“Prayer is responding to God, by thought and by deeds, with or without words.”

Prayer is more than just words.

It’s more than silence.

It’s a response. A posture. A way of living.

When we begin to see prayer this way, then every moment—every task, every breath—becomes an opportunity to respond to God’s presence and grace.

Yes, we still name our needs before God.

But we also give thanks.

We rejoice in God’s goodness.

We seek forgiveness.

We offer ourselves in God’s service.

We lift up others in love.

And in all of it, we say not “My will be done,” but “Thy will be done.”

Jesus understood this.

In fact, the Gospel of Luke shows us more than any other Gospel just how central prayer was to Jesus’ life.

In Luke 3, as Jesus is being baptized by John at the River Jordan, Jesus prays as the Spirit descends upon him—an early sign of his connection to God through prayer.

In Luke 6, Jesus spends an entire evening in prayer before he calls his disciples together and chooses twelve of them to become apostles.

In the ninth chapter of Luke, Jesus is alone in prayer just before he asks his disciples, “Who do the crowds say that I am?” And Peter responds, “You are the Messiah of God.”

And later, in that same chapter, in the story of the Transfiguration, Jesus goes with Peter, James, and John to the top of a mountain to pray, and as he’s praying, the glory of God is revealed to the three apostles.

Prayer is essential for Jesus.

It’s not something he does once and a while, when he has a few extra minutes to spare.

It is the foundation of his entire life and ministry.

Every action—every decision—is rooted in prayer and his connection with the Father.

And the disciples noticed.

Which is why, at the beginning of our Gospel lesson for today, as Jesus is once again off by himself praying, one of the disciples comes to him and says, “Lord, teach us to pray, as John taught his disciples.”

Now remember, these were Jewish men, which means they grew up steeped in a long tradition of prayer and obedience to God.

They already knew how to pray.

They already knew the words and forms of prayer handed down to them from generation to generation.

But what they saw in Jesus was different.

They saw something real—something intimate.

What they wanted was to know how he prayed—how to have that same close, intimate relationship with the Father that he has.

So, Jesus said, “When you pray, say this…”

Father, hallowed be your name.
Your kingdom come.
Give us each day our daily bread.
And forgive us our sins,
for we ourselves forgive everyone indebted to us.
And do not bring us to the time of trial.

Luke’s version of the Lord’s Prayer is short and simple—much simpler than the version we read in Matthew’s Gospel and the one we use in worship on Sunday morning.

But, in it, we come to discover the true meaning and purpose of prayer for Jesus.

It’s not about us—not really.

It’s all about God.

It’s about what God is doing in us and through us.

It’s about God providing us with the things we need to be faithful in our calling.

It’s about surrender and trust.

It’s about aligning our hearts with God’s Kingdom.

And then, in the second half of our Gospel lesson, after giving his disciples the words of prayer, Jesus offers this promise:

“Ask, and it will be given you; search, and you will find; knock, and the door will be opened for you.”

And he doesn’t stop there.

He goes on to say that even flawed, human parents know how to give good gifts to their children. So, how much more will our loving God give the Holy Spirit to those who ask?

This is not a promise of instant results or a guarantee that things will always go our way.

This is an invitation to relationship.

A life of persistent, hopeful, faithful prayer.

Not because prayer changes God’s mind—but because it draws us closer to the heart of God.

When we ask, we open our hands to receive what God longs to give.

When we search, we draw closer to the one who is already seeking us.

When we knock, we trust that the door really will be opened.

So…

Why do you pray?

Maybe your answer today is different than it was before you came to church this morning.

Maybe prayer has felt more like a routine, or a last resort, or something you’re not even sure makes a difference.

And if that’s where you are, know that you’re not alone.

But, I hope you’ll remember this:

Prayer doesn’t have to be perfect.

It’s not a performance.

It’s not a test.

It’s not a ritual we do to prove our faithfulness.

It’s a relationship—a way of being with God that forms us, day by day, into the people God is calling us to be.

Jesus prayed constantly—not to change God’s mind, but because it kept him rooted in who he was.

And if Jesus needed that connection—that reminder, how much more do we?

So keep praying, friends.

Even when it feels dry or routine.

Even when you’re not sure what to say.

Even when you’re not sure God is listening.

Keep asking.

Keep seeking.

Keep knocking at the door.

And trust that the one who created you, who knows your heart, and who loves you more than you could ever imagine…will meet you there.

Amen.

The Kingdom Has Come Near

A Sermon for the Fourth Sunday after Pentecost (Proper 9C)
July 6, 2025

Text: Luke 10:1-11, 16-20

Now, O Lord, take my lips, and speak through them. Take our minds, and think through them. Take our hearts, and set them on fire. In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit. Amen.

If you’ve heard me preach before, you probably know that I often talk about my experience of coming to the Episcopal Church for the first time when I was a student at Auburn.

And the reason I return to that story so often—even though it’s been over twenty years since I graduated—is because that experience changed my life. It was formational to who I am today—not just as a Christian or a priest, but as a husband and a father. My years at St. Dunstan’s in Auburn are a touchstone in my spiritual journey, filled with sacred memories that continue to shape me.

It’s where I first learned about the radical love and hospitality of Jesus—who calls us, first and foremost, to love and serve our neighbors as ourselves.

It’s where I learned that it’s okay if you don’t have all the answers figured out, or if you’re still trying to find your way. You can come to church with questions—even doubts—and still be a faithful Christian.

St. Dunstan’s is where I first learned that faith isn’t built through guilt or shame, or by trying to convince people to think and believe the same way. Faith is built through relationships—through trust, presence, and shared life together.

When I was new to the Episcopal Church, I wasn’t sure if I belonged. I didn’t know what I was doing in worship. I didn’t know the hymns. I had no idea how to use the Prayer Book, or when to sit, stand, or kneel during the service.

But I was curious. And thankfully, there were people all around me who were there to help.

At St. Dunstan’s, our Sunday services were held in the evening to make it easier for college students to attend. And every Sunday, during the announcements, our priest would invite everyone to stay for dinner afterward.

What a brilliant idea—to feed hungry college students! But it wasn’t just for students. We had newcomers like me, cradle Episcopalians, faculty members, older adults, and young children. It was a full expression of the church—a community of people from all walks of life gathered around a single table.

Father Wells always used to say, “Join us for dinner after the service. It’s only $2.00, and if you don’t have $2.00, then it’s free!” And he meant it.

Most Sundays, I had at least $2.00 to drop in the collection box. But even on the days I didn’t, no one said a word. They were just happy I was there.

As I became more involved, I started looking forward to those Sunday Suppers as much as I did the worship. Because it was around that dinner table where strangers became friends. Where we could be honest and open about what was on our minds and in our hearts. Where we shared our joys and our struggles.

It was around the dinner table that my faith in Jesus grew—just as it did at the Altar each week when we received Communion. Jesus was present in both: in the sacrament, yes—but also in the fellowship and the breaking of bread that followed.

I share this with you because I think we often make sharing the Gospel more complicated than it needs to be.

We think we have to have the right words, the right arguments, or the perfect explanation—as if it’s our job to convince people to follow Jesus.

But that’s not our calling.

Our call is not to convert people or to tell them they’re wrong and we’re right. Our call is not to make people think or believe the same way we do.

Our call is to share the Good News of God in Christ—to proclaim, in word and in action, that this Jesus who was crucified and risen has come to save us all and to reconcile us with God and with each other.

Our call is to show that the way of Jesus—the way of sacrificial love, humility, and peace—is the way that leads to abundant life.

And that kind of Gospel-sharing, that kind of love—it takes time. It takes presence. It takes relationships.

One of the best ways we can build those relationships is around a dinner table.

Because something holy happens when we share a meal.

The walls we build around ourselves begin to come down. Our guard drops. We listen more. We speak more honestly. And in that sacred space, we often discover that we have far more in common than we thought. We’re all just pilgrims on the journey, doing our best to live as God intended.


In our Gospel passage from Luke 10, Jesus is preparing to visit towns and villages on his way to Jerusalem. But instead of going alone, he sends seventy of his disciples ahead of him, two by two.

Now think about that.

Jesus could’ve done it all himself. He was going to those towns and villages anyway.

But instead, he sends ordinary people—disciples like you and me—ahead of him, to lay the groundwork, to prepare hearts, and to proclaim peace.

He warns them they’ll be vulnerable—“like sheep among wolves.” He tells them to carry no bag, no money, no sandals. The mission is simple. Show up. Be present. Offer peace.

“Go and meet people where they are,” Jesus says.

“Don’t go with an agenda.”

“Don’t expect to change minds or win arguments.”

“Just go and proclaim peace.”

“Go and receive the hospitality offered to you.”

“Eat what is placed before you.”

“Listen. Heal. Be present.”

“Let them know that the Kingdom of God has come near.”

And here’s the part that always strikes me—Jesus tells them that even if people reject you, even if they don’t want to listen, still say this:

“The Kingdom of God has come near.”


This passage from Luke flips the script on how we often think about mission and ministry.

We usually assume ministry is something we do for others—especially for those in need. But that’s not what’s happening here.

The disciples aren’t sent to “fix” or “serve” others. They’re sent to be in relationship with them. They’re sent to receive hospitality. To share life. To be present.

Jesus didn’t send them with a script. He didn’t tell them to win arguments or build churches or convert the masses.

He sent them to do something simpler—and much harder.

Offer peace. Receive welcome. Build relationships.

That’s Jesus’ model for evangelism. And it’s what we’re still called to do today.

You don’t have to be a priest to share the Gospel.

You don’t have to know the Bible backward and forward.

You don’t need to be an expert theologian or a master of church history.

You just have to show up. You have to care. You have to be willing to sit at the table and say, “You’re welcome here.”

That’s what I experienced all those years ago at St. Dunstan’s. I didn’t realize it then, but what I found around that table was the church at its best—the Gospel in action. Not because someone preached a powerful sermon, but because someone passed the bread. Because someone made room for me. Because someone said, “We’re glad you’re here.”

That’s how the Kingdom of God comes near.

That’s how lives are changed.

And I believe with all my heart that the Gospel is still best shared this way—not through coercion, not through debate, but through hospitality and hope.

Through good food and honest conversation.

Through laughter and vulnerability.

Through people who are willing to be sent out with nothing but the love of Christ and the courage to share it.

So let’s be that kind of church.

Let’s be a church that puts relationship before perfection.

Let’s be a church that values welcome over performance.

Let’s be a church that sees every table—whether it’s the Altar or the dinner table—as holy ground.

Because when we go into the world with peace, when we sit down with others and really listen, when we break bread together in Jesus’ name—he is already there.

“Whoever listens to you listens to me,” Jesus says. “The Kingdom of God has come near.”

It comes near when you bring a meal to someone who is grieving.

It comes near when you welcome someone the world has forgotten.

It comes near when you make space at your table—not just for food, but for belonging.

So go.

Be sent.

Not with fear, but with joy.

Go and share the love that changed your life with someone else.

Go and declare—not just with words, but with presence, peace, and open hearts: “The Kingdom of God has come near.”

Amen.

The Sin of Certainty

A Sermon for the Fifth Sunday of Easter
May 18, 2025

Text: Acts 11:1-18

Now, O Lord, take my lips, and speak through them. Take our minds, and think through them. Take our hearts, and set them on fire. In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit. Amen.

If you’ve been following the news closely over the past couple of weeks, you’ve probably heard by now that there’s a new Pope—Pope Leo XIV, who is the first American-born citizen to ever hold the position.

Now…what that means for us, as Episcopalians, is that there’s a new Bishop of Rome in the Roman Catholic Church.

Although we certainly look to the Pope as an influential figure and spiritual leader in the Body of Christ, he doesn’t hold any authority over what we do in the Episcopal Church or in the worldwide, Anglican Communion.

And, as Anglicans, we don’t have any equivalent to the Pope.

We have bishops, and we have an Archbishop of Canterbury—who serves as the head of the Church of England and the spiritual head of the Anglican Communion, but even he doesn’t have the same level of authority or influence as the Pope does in the Roman Catholic Church.

Still…any time a new Pope is elected, it seems as though the entire world is sitting on the edge of their seats, waiting anxiously to see the white smoke appear from the roof of the Sistine Chapel.

Watching all of the news about the election of the new Pope reminded me of a movie Chelsea and I recently watched called, Conclave.

Has anyone else seen it?

I’m sure a few of you have.

It’s a brand new movie that just came out last year, and it’s based on a novel that was written back in 2016 by Robert Harris.

The film was nominated for several awards, including eight Academy Awards, which it won for Best Adapted Screenplay.

If you haven’t seen it yet, don’t worry.

I’m not going to spoil it for you in case you decide to watch it later.

But, I highly recommend it.

The story of Conclave takes place in Rome.

After the Pope dies of a heart attack, the College of Cardinals gathers in the Vatican to elect his successor.

The main character of the film is Cardinal Lawrence—the dean of the College of Cardinals, played by Ralph Fiennes.

He’s the one who’s responsible for making sure the conclave runs smoothly.

Toward the beginning of the story, we learn that there are four cardinals who’ve emerged as the most likely candidates to become the new Pope.

And, as the story progresses, we see each of these characters positioning themselves politically and strategizing to make sure their top choice is the one who’s elected.

They all come into the conclave with their own, personal agendas, and they’ve already decided who they think should be the next Pope.

They all think they have the right answers on how the Church should be run.

Scandals are uncovered in the process.

Secrets are revealed.

And, ultimately—after an unexpected tragedy—the one who’s finally elected to be the new Pope is the one who was least likely to be chosen.

There’s one scene in the movie that especially resonated with me, and it happens toward the beginning of the film, soon after the conclave begins.

During the opening mass, Cardinal Lawrence delivers a powerful homily to the rest of the cardinals, stressing the importance of doubt and mystery in the life of faith.

At one point, he says to the cardinals, “There is one sin I have come to fear above all else. Certainty.”

And he goes on to say, “Our faith is a living thing precisely because it walks hand in hand with doubt.”

“If there was only certainty and no doubt, there would be no mystery and therefore no need for faith.”

The cardinal’s homily in the movie is very similar to something the late Pope Francis once said in an interview, not long after he was elected to the papacy in 2013…

“If one has the answers to all the questions—that is the proof that God is not with him. . . . The great leaders of the people of God, like Moses, have always left room for doubt. You must leave room for the Lord, not for our certainties; we must be humble.”

I think this is an important lesson for us to remember.

“We must be humble.”

We’ve all had experiences of people in our lives who claimed to have all the answers figured out.

We‘ve all known people who claimed to know the will of God and to think they know what’s best—not leaving room for anyone else’s opinions or beliefs.

We’ve all known people—and churches—who’ve taught that if you don’t believe the same way they do or belong to their church, you’re wrong.

I’m convinced it’s one of the reasons why so many people have been driven away from any kind of organized religion and why so many people feel isolated from the Church.

It’s because of the sin of certainty.

It’s because of our tendency—as human beings—to try and fit God into a box of our own design and not allowing any room for the Holy Spirit to move in our lives of faith.

In the words of Cardinal Lawrence, “Our faith is a living thing.”

And, it’s a lifelong journey—filled with pitfalls, valleys, and mountains—that God has called us to walk.

We are pilgrims—trying to find our way on this journey of faith, but in order to do so, we have to leave room for God to lead us.

We must decrease so that he may increase.

A really good example of that can be found in our lesson today from the Book of Acts.

Peter has just returned to Jerusalem after visiting Caesarea and a man named Cornelius, who was a Roman officer and Gentile.

When Peter returned to Jerusalem, he was met by a group of concerned Christians who were there, who were also Jewish.

They asked him, “Why did you go to uncircumcised men and eat with them?”

In other words, “Why did you associate with the Gentiles?”

This was unheard of at the time.

Jews believed that, in order to stay pure, they could have no interaction with Gentiles.

So, Peter explained to them the situation…

He told them that, while he was away and praying in the city of Joppa, he had a vision sent from God.

Something like a large sheet came down from heaven, and it was filled with animals—four-footed animals, beasts of prey, reptiles, and birds of the air—all considered “unclean” according to Jewish law.

A voice from heaven told Peter, “Get up! Kill and eat!”

Peter replied, “By no means, Lord; for nothing profane or unclean has ever touched my mouth.”

A second time, the voice from heaven said to Peter, “What God has made clean, you must not call profane.”

This happened three times.

Then, everything was pulled up again to heaven.

Peter was amazed by what he saw and wondered what it all meant.

Then, three men appeared who were sent by a man named Cornelius to bring Peter back to his home in Caesarea.

The Spirit told Peter to go with them.

So, he and some others from Joppa accompanied the men back to Caesarea.

When they arrived at the house, Peter told Cornelius and the other Gentiles who were there all about Jesus, and as he was speaking, the Holy Spirit fell upon all of them.

And, Peter remembered something Jesus once said…

“John baptized with water, but you will be baptized with the Holy Spirit.”

Peter said to those concerned Christians in Jerusalem, “If God gave them the same gift that he gave us when we believed in the Lord Jesus Christ, who was I that I could hinder God?”

In other words, “If God gave those Gentiles the same gift he gave us, who was I to stand in God’s way?”

The people who heard this fell silent, and they began praising God, saying, “Then God has given even to the Gentiles the repentance that leads to life.”

This was a major turning point in the life of the early church.

Up to this point, most Christians believed that only Jews could follow Jesus.

But, because of the example of Peter and his willingness to go where the Spirit was leading him, he was able to break down those barriers and help people realize that Jesus wasn’t just for some people.

Jesus was sent to save us all.

From that point forward, the Gospel spread from a small group of Christians in Jerusalem to a worldwide faith—to people of all nations, cultures, and languages.

Our lesson this morning from Acts teaches us that God’s love is so much bigger than our traditions and pre-conceived ideas about who God is and who God calls us to love.

It teaches us that, when we’re willing to let go of certainty and the belief that we have all the answers figured out, God can use us as instruments of his love and mercy in the world.

There is a place for our questions and even our doubts, which can lead us to a deeper and more meaningful relationship with God.

There is a place for prayer and asking God to lead us and guide us, and to give us the strength we need to align our wills with his own.

Our job is not to stand in God’s way or to be a stumbling block to the Holy Spirit.

Our job is to follow where the Spirit is leading us, to let God use us as he will, and then have the grace and humility to get out of the way and let God be God.

Amen.