A Sermon for the Sixteenth Sunday after Pentecost (Proper 18, Year B)
September 8, 2024
Text: Mark 7:24-37
Now, O Lord, take my lips, and speak through them. Take our minds, and think through them. Take our hearts, and set them on fire. In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit. Amen.
In January of 2019—about five and a half years ago—my family and I were living in Chelsea, Alabama—a small suburb of Birmingham. I was serving as the priest at a small, Episcopal church called St. Catherine’s while Chelsea was working as a nurse at a pediatric clinic in downtown Birmingham.
One night, as I was cooking dinner at home, Chelsea and the kids were in the backyard playing on the trampoline. Jude was seven years old at the time, and Sophie was nine.
I remember that it was dark outside and very cold.
All of a sudden, I heard Chelsea scream my name from outside. I had no idea what was happening, but as a parent, my mind immediately went to the worst case scenario.
Something’s happened to one of the kids.
I quickly went outside to see what was wrong, and I found Jude lying on the trampoline in terrible pain. Chelsea told me that they had been playing around and that Jude fell hard on the side of his left arm.
He didn’t fall off the trampoline. He just fell on the mat. So, at first, I didn’t think it was very serious.
We helped him down and took him inside where we could see his arm more clearly, and that’s when we knew it was much more serious than we thought.
Not to get too graphic, but Jude’s left arm looked like a limp noodle.
Being a nurse, Chelsea knew right away what we needed to do. So, we loaded everyone up in the car and drove to the emergency room at Children’s Hospital.
Even though it was a short trip, it was one of the longest thirty minutes of my life.
Jude handled it much better than I did.
I was a nervous wreck the whole way there. More than anything, I just wanted him to be okay and to get the help he needed as soon as possible.
When we arrived at the emergency room, we had to wait much longer than I had hoped, which added even more anxiety to the situation.
I expected Jude to be seen right away. But, instead, it was hurry up and wait.
Finally, we were seen by a nurse, who was able to give Jude some medicine for the pain, and we were taken back into a room and seen by a doctor.
They took some x-rays of Jude’s arm, and we were told that his arm was fractured completely, right above the elbow and that he was going to have surgery the following day.
Well…needless to say, that made matters even worse.
I was already worried about Jude’s broken arm, and now he was going to have to go through surgery. The surgeon told us he was going to have to use screws and rods to fix his broken arm.
As a parent, the last thing you want is for your child to have to go through something like that. To have a broken arm is one thing but to have to be put to sleep and go through a serious surgery is another thing entirely.
The next morning, we had to wait much longer than expected for Jude’s surgery.
But, finally, the time came. I said a prayer, and they took him back to the operating room.
After a few hours, the doctor came back to the room and told us that everything went well with the surgery.
Chelsea and I could finally breathe a sigh of relief.
Jude was going to be okay. It was going to take a long time for him to recover and heal from the accident, but thankfully, everything was going to be okay.
I wanted to share this story with you because, as a parent, I know what it’s like to feel helpless and to want more than anything for your child to be healed.
I know what it feels like to anxiously sit and wait, wondering whether or not your child is going to be okay.
And, I know that, as a parent, there’s nothing I wouldn’t do to make sure my children got the help and care they needed if they were ever in harm’s way.
There’s a story in our Gospel lesson from this morning about a mother who’s trying to do the same thing.
She’s trying desperately to find help for her daughter, who’s been possessed by an unclean spirit—a demon that’s killing her.
The Gospel doesn’t give us any details about why or how this little girl came to have an unclean spirit. All we know for sure is that she’s in terrible danger.
Her mother’s probably tried everything she can think of to get her the help she needs, but so far, nothing has worked.
So, when news gets around that Jesus of Nazareth has come to town, she takes action. She’s heard of this man from Galilee who has the power to heal and cast out demons.
She goes and finds Jesus alone in a house, probably trying to find a quiet place where he can rest for a while.
She bows down at his feet, and begs him to cast the demon out of her daughter.
She knows it’s a lot to ask—especially with her being a Gentile and him being a Jew—but she’s desperate. And, she’ll do anything to get her daughter the help she needs.
What happens next in the story is pretty shocking.
Normally, we’d expect Jesus to have mercy and compassion for the woman right away and to say, “Of course I’ll help your daughter.”
But, that’s not what happens—at least not at first.
Instead of helping the woman, Jesus says to her, “Let the children be fed first, for it is not fair to take the children’s food and throw it to the dogs.”
This doesn’t sound like Jesus, does it?
It doesn’t sound like the Jesus we know and love—the Jesus we expect to read about in the Gospels who, up to this point in his ministry, has spent years preaching about the Kingdom of God and healing the sick and casting out demons.
The Jesus we know would never disrespect and talk down to this woman in such a dismissive way, especially when she’s already going through so much.
And yet, here we are.
We’re left wondering what to do with this passage from Scripture and what to do with this Jesus who seems anything but merciful and kind.
For centuries, Biblical scholars have wrestled with this text (and the one similar to it in the Gospel of Matthew), and there’ve been many attempts at trying to explain exactly what’s going on.
Some interpreters, for example, try to sugar coat it and insist that the Greek word for “dogs” is better translated, “puppies” and that it’s not really as derogatory as it sounds.
Some suggest that it was common in the time of Jesus for Gentiles to be referred to as “dogs” and that Jesus was simply using a phrase or a saying that wouldn’t have been out of the ordinary.
But, neither of these interpretations explain why Jesus was so dismissive to the woman.
And I think, for most of us, that’s the crux of the matter. The fact that Jesus so easily dismisses the mother’s request for help is what bothers us the most.
So, I want to offer a few words on what I think is really going on in this passage.
Jesus was a first century, Jewish man, who lived in a very particular time and culture and who experienced the harsh disdain that Jews at that time had for Gentiles—those who were non-Jewish.
Gentiles were often referred to as “dogs” because they were considered unclean and impure. For Jews at that time, even standing close to someone who was non-Jewish was to risk being made unclean.
Jews, on the other hand, were God’s chosen people—the people with whom God had an eternal covenant. God promised, in the fullness of time, that he would send the Messiah—the anointed one—to redeem Israel and usher in a new era of peace.
Jesus was perfectly aware of his mission from the very beginning and knew that the focus of his ministry had to be with his own people.
So, when he says to the woman, “Let the children be fed first…” he’s not saying it out of hatred or because he doesn’t think that the woman and her daughter deserve to be helped.
He’s saying it because he’s focused on the urgent matter at hand. He’s come to redeem the children of Israel, and for now, that’s his only mission.
The woman knows this.
Even as a Gentile, she knows the role of the Messiah and never questions Jesus or his priorities.
But, she’s persistent.
She knows Jesus has the power to relieve her daughter of this terrible burden.
So, she replies to him, “Sir, even the dogs under the table eat the children’s crumbs.”
I think it might’ve been her way of saying to Jesus that, even though his priority is to his own people—the children of Israel, maybe there’s enough of God’s grace for everyone.
And she’ll take even the smallest morsel—the smallest crumb—of God’s grace that he has to give for the sake of her daughter.
It’s an eye-opening moment for Jesus, and he comes to understand that maybe his ministry and his mission are much larger than he first realized.
In response to the mother’s plea, he shows mercy and compassion and immediately restores her daughter to fullness of life.
It’s a remarkable story, isn’t it?
And it’s one that gives us a lot to think about, especially when we stop to wonder who is and who isn’t worthy of God’s grace.
The focus of this story is not so much on the miracle that Jesus performed in healing the woman’s daughter.
It’s the fact that, despite his initial response and any preconceived ideas he might have had about this Gentile woman, he showed mercy and compassion.
Because of Jesus, we know that no one is beyond the limits of God’s grace, including those we might consider unclean or unworthy.
Because of Jesus, we know that the mercy and compassion of God are open to all people, not just a select few.
And, as followers of Jesus, we’re called to demonstrate this radical and abundant love in our own lives, wherever we go.
Because you never know who might need our help.
It’s why, in our Baptismal covenant, we promise “to strive for justice and peace among all people and to respect the dignity of every human being.”
Not just some.
All people.
Every human being.
Amen.
